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Suivez votre passion, votre coeur, votre âme
Follow your passion, your heart, your soul
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Created on 2001-10-16 21:00:26 (#371050), last updated 2009-07-07
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Basic Info| Name: | The One The Only....Me |
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| Location: | San Bruno, California, United States |
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butterfly_smile@livejournal.com BioMY LJ IS FOR FRIENDS ONLY. IF YOU WISH TO BE ADDED, COMMENT IN MY JOURNAL AND WE WILL TALK. DO NOT ASSUME THAT IF YOU ADD ME I WILL ADD YOU. PLEASE TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF IN YOUR COMMENT. IF WE HAVE SOMEONE IN COMMON LET ME KNOW THAT TOO.
My life has changed so much over the last few years. Since turning 40 I feel that I have become a grown up and it is time to act like one (well sometimes, who am I kidding).
I am 100% a Virgo and sometimes I am not happy with that.
I am someone who will take care of others before herself. I will take the time to make things "right", I love to cook and pretty damn good at it.
My boundries are set and will not change with things. Polyamory is the way I choose to live my life and this will never change. My religouis beliefs are my own and can change with the wind. My polical beliefs is something I am true to. Don't ask me to change because I will not.
I am learning about love everyday and it teaches me so much about myself. I live in a house on a hill that is amazing, beautiful and peaceful in its own right. We are full to the rafters now with great people that I love.
My beliefs are simple. Be true to me, do not cross me, do not lie to me, treat me as you would treat others and I will be happy.
I am a work in progress. More to come later.
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Create Time For Self-Compassion
Being Gentle With Ourselves
During those times when our lives are filled with what seems to be constant change and growth, it is important to remember that we need to be gentle with ourselves. Since it can be easy to use our energy to keep up with the momentum of our lives, we may not be aware of the fact that we are much more likely to run ourselves down. When things seem to be moving quickly, it is especially essential that we make a point to slow down and be gentle with ourselves.
It might be difficult to notice what is happening to us for we may be so caught up in the whirlwind of our lives that we lose sight of the direction in which things are heading. Being gentle with ourselves doesn’t mean that we don’t accomplish things. Instead it means that we honor ourselves on an ongoing basis and take care of the needs of our bodies.
This means different things to different people. For instance, it could mean having a session with a healer; taking a remedy, herbs, or vitamins; or getting extra sleep. Putting our energy into ourselves in this way helps create space for a more positive, loving, and accepting view of our lives. By setting the intention to do so, we will be more cognizant of our energy levels on a daily basis and more able to replenish them as needed.
The more we are able to treat our bodies with gentleness, the more tenderness and compassion we will call forth into our lives. Learning to understand and pay attention to what our self needs will in turn allow us to fill our lives with unlimited loving and healing energy and to truly take care of the things that mean the most to us.
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My life has changed so much over the last few years. Since turning 40 I feel that I have become a grown up and it is time to act like one (well sometimes, who am I kidding).
I am 100% a Virgo and sometimes I am not happy with that.
I am someone who will take care of others before herself. I will take the time to make things "right", I love to cook and pretty damn good at it.
My boundries are set and will not change with things. Polyamory is the way I choose to live my life and this will never change. My religouis beliefs are my own and can change with the wind. My polical beliefs is something I am true to. Don't ask me to change because I will not.
I am learning about love everyday and it teaches me so much about myself. I live in a house on a hill that is amazing, beautiful and peaceful in its own right. We are full to the rafters now with great people that I love.
My beliefs are simple. Be true to me, do not cross me, do not lie to me, treat me as you would treat others and I will be happy.
I am a work in progress. More to come later.
****************************************************************************************************
Create Time For Self-Compassion
Being Gentle With Ourselves
During those times when our lives are filled with what seems to be constant change and growth, it is important to remember that we need to be gentle with ourselves. Since it can be easy to use our energy to keep up with the momentum of our lives, we may not be aware of the fact that we are much more likely to run ourselves down. When things seem to be moving quickly, it is especially essential that we make a point to slow down and be gentle with ourselves.
It might be difficult to notice what is happening to us for we may be so caught up in the whirlwind of our lives that we lose sight of the direction in which things are heading. Being gentle with ourselves doesn’t mean that we don’t accomplish things. Instead it means that we honor ourselves on an ongoing basis and take care of the needs of our bodies.
This means different things to different people. For instance, it could mean having a session with a healer; taking a remedy, herbs, or vitamins; or getting extra sleep. Putting our energy into ourselves in this way helps create space for a more positive, loving, and accepting view of our lives. By setting the intention to do so, we will be more cognizant of our energy levels on a daily basis and more able to replenish them as needed.
The more we are able to treat our bodies with gentleness, the more tenderness and compassion we will call forth into our lives. Learning to understand and pay attention to what our self needs will in turn allow us to fill our lives with unlimited loving and healing energy and to truly take care of the things that mean the most to us.
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